The Art of Flexible Boundaries: Finding the Distance to Love Yourself and Others

What does it mean to hold a boundary? When most of us think of boundaries, we picture a firm, unwavering line — a property fence, a set of rules, a series of “no”s. Boundaries, in the popular imagination, often appear inflexible. But what if boundaries are not static fences but rather dynamic points of engagement? What if we think of them not as fixed lines in the sand, but as living, breathing guides that shift with context and circumstance?